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There is nothing more sexy than a man who makes efforts
luisa Hilburn 08/05/2019 12:45 PM CST

To act as if you do not care about your partner is not attractive. Do not call me for days is not attractive. To write to me only when you have drunk and you are alone does not make me want you any more.

Blowing hot and cold, not finding time for me, coming and going in my life (as if waiting for you was the only thing I have to do) is nothing seductive. So, please, stop.

If you really want to seduce me, try hard. Make all the necessary efforts. Show me that you care about me. That's sexy.

Be honest about what you feel for me. Do not hide your feelings and do not act as if they did not exist.

Come knock on my door in the middle of the day, telling me that you could not stand a minute longer without seeing me. Bring a box of my favorite chocolates with you.

Send me a nice message for a long day, just to tell me that you think of me. Call me during your lunch breaks, just to hear my voice for a second.

Do what you want - but show me that you care about me.

I am tired of men who believe that to make their way to my heart or to my bed, they must send me contradictory signals.

I do not want any more lame excuses, lack of investment, crying nights and telling me that someone had to cast a bad spell on me, so bad luck I have in love.

I am tired of all those who act as if they are the only ones to count and the only ones to have a history worthy of being heard. Those who believe that they can disappear from my life without warning and when they want.

I need someone to be there for me, anytime. In boredom, as in joy. In the worst as in the best, in good weather, as during storms. Someone who accepts me, as I accept it - with its flaws and qualities.

I need someone to do projects for two. Whoever they are - going to the movies, going on weekends, enjoying a gig, lounging in front of Netflix, cooking a homemade meal or whatever. The important thing is that he makes an effort.

I need someone who is sincere and who has a good heart. Someone who cares for me if I have the flu. Someone who likes nothing more than making me laugh until I have a stomach ache.

I need someone who forgets he has a mobile phone because he's too busy looking me in the eye and talking to me.

I need someone who moves heaven and earth to be forgiven for making a mistake. Someone who is sincerely sorry for having hurt me. Someone who cares about me as much as I care about him.
I need someone to share my happiness with right now. I do not want someone who makes me wait and feeds me with empty promises about our future together.

I need someone who is not afraid to be in a relationship. Someone who is sure of his feelings. Someone whose heart beats faster when he's at my side. Someone who knows that I am not perfect and, for that reason, thinks me even more special.

I need more than empty words. I need acts. I need a man who does things. Someone I can trust and feel safe with.

That's the kind of man I want to be with. This is the kind of man who will conquer my heart forever, because there is nothing more sexy than a man who makes efforts.

And for this man, I'm ready to do whatever it takes. I will appreciate his efforts and make some in return. I will not hold back. Everything he gives me will be returned to him. I will only think of him. He will become the one and the only one.